I had been trying to get my ex to deliver me a divorce for multiple years plus I was afraid it would never happen. It was in the Springtime of 2010, when I found out the divorce laws were changing in our state, but for years, Buffalo, NY plus all of New York had such antiquated ideas on divorce that I wasn’t sure I could ever divorce him unless every one of us moved out of state. I knew he would not transport since Buffalo, NY was his hometown, but I was willing. I was ready to do anything I needed to get this guy out of my life. In 2010, the state of New York finally came into the future plus got rid of their antiquated laws pertaining to divorce. I could finally file for divorce with nothing other than a lack of breakdowns in the marriage, plus every one of us had been living apart for a year. Irreconcilable differences were now a reason for divorce; They had changed legal services in the state of New York, plus I no longer wanted to transport from Buffalo, NY, however when our marriage was finally respectfully ended, I still had to consider what every one of us were going to do with the teenagers. We could take care of most of the paperwork that pertained to the teenagers separate from the help of a lawyer, but every one of us wanted to make sure they did everything respectfully, then like anything else, when having a marriage dissolved, every one of us were told it would be best if every one of us were to use a lawyer for everything involving divorce plus family law.